3 Things to Discuss on your First Date


Here are come tips and tricks on dating discussions for anyone on a date. A good conversation has always been the engine room for a successful date.

Things to Discuss on your First Date

Because speech preference is a thing, and sometimes eloquence is greatly admired.

Nobody finds lisping or mispronouncing wordings attractive, regardless of if it is a character trait.

But nothing good comes easy,
especially if it involves another human!

Stringing together words to impress the other person at the end of the round table can be somewhat hectic.

you’d surely bow down to emphatic word lags and slipups when in the presence of a total stranger you admire, especially one you’re interested in impressing. But that doesn’t have to be the case.

For the interest of those bound to jitter and suffer nose bleeds while on a romantic parle.
Here are 3 solid things to discuss while on a date.

1. Begin with a compliment.
Do this genuinely.

Let’s talk about your outfit, maybe personality.

You can begin with a simple “you look nice”, “I love your outfit”, “you smell heavenly”, or “I wish I had your hair”. you know, ensue a false sense of accomplishment in them.

Doing so would go a long way in painting you in greenlights and can set you on the path to actualizing your date fantasies.

Besides taking them to a happy place—with words, complimenting your date would prove you have an elaborate attention span that handpicks details even if insignificant, which is good in kindling attraction and engineering romance. Because really, a romantic date just screams out the need for spousal attention.

2. Small talk; do you like this place?

articulate them to fit your environment.

You don’t rush straight into “so how much do you earn?” or “what’s your body count?.”

Or plunge the entire circumstance into a reality of awkward silence.

You should stir the experience to birth a natural conversation. How so?

You follow through with small talks.

You can question your date’s ability to adjust.

A simple “have you been here before?”

“What do you think of this place?”

You can pick details from their appearance like the design of their outfit, and/or Haircut/style.

Or you can wow your date by telling him/her how hard you had to rock the haystack to find a nice restaurant;

Suddenly nice restaurants are so hard to find…this just happened to be in my pocket by the way”

Or better still, recall an incident involving you and that very area— tell on the time duration you’ve elapsed in that area. If your date isn’t accustomed to the environment ask him/her the kind of places she relates well with.

This can trigger happy hours and you can each take turns telling stories.

The goal is just to create a sense of comfort in your date and then watch the universe align for you.

3. Bring up their week; so how have you been?

This doesn’t have to be a desperate attempt in showing some reclining level of commitment and sensitivity.

Regardless of the response which would most likely be “fine”

Settling for simplicity sometimes would cost you a lot

Press home for an elaborate answer.

“Fine? In what aspect?”

They’d most likely divulge the cause of their sleepless nights and pleasure points in the course of telling out their experience. And if they don’t,

You can stand alone in the rain, or better still inquire about their passions, their drive, and what generally makes them happy.

As you advance in mastering the art of communication, you shouldn’t encourage the dire mistake of  discussing politics,

irrespective of how your date appears expunge the thought of academia with it’s hook, line, and sinker from contextual discussions; they’re major red flags.

IGBAJI U.C.https://igbajiugabi.com
Igbaji Ugabi Chinwendu, from Cross River State, Nigeria. As a Business Educator, he is profoundly interested in teaching and managing business. Started blogging 2010 and officially 2013. He holds the esteemed positions of Chief Executive Officer (CEO) and Director at Freemanbiz Communication and Writers King LTD, demonstrating his leadership and expertise in the field.


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