5 Things Women Find Irresistible In Men


5 Things Women Find Irresistible In Men

So a bunch of scientists sat down with  John, they deliberated on a topic and made copious research on it, even though the research was carried out in an empty shack and featured a minute number of youths who gave hypothesis as answers based on their personal feelings and not as a collective unit.

I was a subordinate figure the purpose of their gathering was none of my concern my presence there was just a favour to John.

Being a core patron of the research, John had always created an atmosphere only conducive for the dead mainly because he claims to concentrate well under that type of setting, it has always been quite difficult to pick anything or rather understand what transpires when the whole environment was synonymous to a morgue both scary and quiet.

So I always leave out of confusion and mostly fear. I for some reason saw John’s little project as a cover-up for a much larger cultic act, few days after his last research was carried out, as disturbed as I was i saw an opportunity to speak with John so I quickly took advantage of it and inquired from him what the purpose of his research was all about.

He smiled and said “he was just saying trying to figure out what attracts ladies to men” I laughed, i knew John lived his life as a Romeo but i never knew he’ll go this far I honestly took it as a joke, I later discovered that he was very serious, at first I was bent on ridiculing him for taking something that mild very serious.

When he applied the results from his research into his daily life the theories became factual, that very day I learnt something so I grabbed a biro and wrote down the lore i discovered on a paper and titled it “5 things women find irresistible in men” and they are;

Gentleness as well as appearance

For women, this should be more of a package deal, like a 2 in 1 kind of gift box.   At this point, you might want to conclude that it’s inappropriate to judge a book by its cover. you are right no doubt, however, everyone knows that the first impression matters a lot, if you want to be addressed as the gentleman you are, you should work on your appearance, presence as well as listening and communication.

A lady always fancy’s a guy that gets the door for her, she likes that guy who pulls the chair for her to sit before I recover from my high dose of feminism.

I would like to clarify that only single-minded individual would gratify such as modern-day slavery, this has nothing close to such, rather it has everything to do with respect and courtesy, a gentleman always respects a woman. That gentlemanly trait that has always been spotted in guys makes a lot of ladies fall head over heels.

Purpose and vision

Everyone admires a purposeful individual especially the ladies, they like men who can captain their ship and sail from turbulent situations to calmer once, they delight in guys that possess an already preplanned future.

No one wants to hang around a guy with no foresight or plans for the nearest coming event, a lot of ladies abhor heavy lifting and strenuous situation, it gives them stress marks on places that cosmetics can’t necessarily cover, so they rather leave such for well-abled guys.


Guys possessing this trait are always held in high regards, the ability to phantom, decipher and apply knowledge for the benefit of manipulating an environment or rigorous situation to bring out a soluble sequence has attracted a lot of ladies to the threshold of guys, just to impose clarity under this particular point of deliberation, ladies like guys that can hustle.

Generosity and care

If I can recall correctly, whenever I and John steps into a gathering he always gets more attention mostly from females and people are always attracted to him, simply because everyone expects something from him, and he never fails them.

Everybody loves a cheerful giver, his ability to tend for other people at the expense of his diminishing pocket weight has made him a sight of attraction, aside from spending money it’s also an appealing sight to see a man caress a cat or puppy or even help an old citizen cross the road, the word manliness wasn’t inspired by muscle or brute strength it was rather coined from heart size and most of the time that’s what ladies tend to be looking out for.

Sense of Humor

Society is like a horror movie that both genders experience, it’s littered with suspense, tension, and fear, men easily cope with such but sadly women don’t. their worrisome attitude has left them a victim to their own emotions and their “to-do-list“.

That has over the year induced women with a wholesome amount of stress, making a woman laugh is equivalent to doing her a huge favour, at times they find it difficult to amuse themselves, so they depend on some guys to uplift them from emotional trauma by adding joy to their everyday life through laughter.

IGBAJI U.C.https://igbajiugabi.com
Igbaji Ugabi Chinwendu, from Cross River State, Nigeria. As a Business Educator, he is profoundly interested in teaching and managing business. Started blogging 2010 and officially 2013. He holds the esteemed positions of Chief Executive Officer (CEO) and Director at Freemanbiz Communication and Writers King LTD, demonstrating his leadership and expertise in the field.


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